Being unemployed as a 'mid-career professional' has very specific challenges. I have been in the working world long enough to earn a decent salary, and also worked at jobs long enough to learn how to do a variety of tasks. I do not, however, have the specific certifications and/or advanced degrees that employers are requiring now.
My challenge is to remain focused, and stay encouraged in spite of the denial letters I receive. How many emails have I opened to read, 'We appreciate your interest.....We will not be interviewing you at this time....We will keep your resume on file....blah, blah, blah.' What I would appreciate is an opportunity to interview, and become more than facts on paper.
During this time (and other transitional periods), I have to remember to do these things:
1. Pray - I need to talk to God, and have a firm grasp on His promises in Isaiah 43: 1-2
But now thus saith the LORD that created thee, O Jacob, and he that formed thee, O Israel, Fear not: for I have redeemed thee, I have called thee by thy name; thou art mine. When thou passest through the waters, I will be with thee; and through the rivers, they shall not overflow thee: when thou walkest through the fire, thou shalt not be burned; neither shall the flame kindle upon thee.
2. Listen to my cheerleaders - Family, friends, and even former coworkers, think very highly of me and my abilities. They encourage me by telling me about the skills and accomplishments they admire. Thank God for them! I need to listen.
3. Reflect - What do I desire to do next? What steps can I take to get there? While I'm waiting, I have more time to do some of the things that I didn't have enough time for before. One of those things is simply taking time to think.
Yes, I am at a crossroad, but just means that I am traveling. I am on a journey. I am going somewhere. I may not know the specific destination yet, but I'll get through this - one prayer at a time.